Kids. You are increasingly wondering if you are ready to have kids. Are you already talking about this with your partner, and you cannot reach an agreement? Do you think you are old enough to make such an important life decision? Having a child is a great responsibility and a lifestyle change of almost 180 degrees.
Can you imagine yourself as a parent? Would you like to create a happy and safe home for your children? Are you not sure if you can bear such an obligation as having a child? You have to look at it from two sides. One side is what duties await you after the birth of your child. The second is what happy moments in the life of your child you will be able to remember. It all depends on you. Before you start listing the pros and cons, think about what your inner voice is saying.
You must be determined. You must know what you want. You must have many qualities to be ready to become a parent. This is very important. On the other hand, constantly wondering “how it will be” does not bring you closer to the decision of whether you want to have a child. Perhaps the best solution is not to worry about anything, not to plan it, and just make a spontaneous decision.
You don’t have to think anymore. Thanks to your answers to the questions in this quiz, you will find out if this is the right time to have a child.
Here are some factors you should think about and consider before you start this quiz:
Does your partner agree with your approach to having children? If you don’t get along with your partner about having children, then you should think about how to solve this situation. If your partner has a completely different vision for the future, then the best solution would be an honest conversation. You don’t want your relationship to have a crisis at some point, do you?
Money. Let’s face it, having a child is quite a big expense. Some sources say that we spend about $13,000 on our child in the first year of his life. So think about whether you and your partner have adequate savings or a well-paid, permanent job.
Mother’s age. If you are already over 30, remember that every year the risk increases that the child will not be born completely healthy. Each year of delay can make it too late at some point. This is obviously not the rule, and there are cases where a woman over 40 gives birth to a healthy child, but the risk of complications is much higher. On the other hand, if you’re still young, let’s say you’re under 22, why not let yourself and your partner get used to this idea? Analyze the situation and find a common denominator. Hurry is not a good idea.
How do you get along with the relationship? Are you sure the person you are currently with is your lifelong partner? It is a false thought sometimes. Analyze your life together and think about whether the person you are currently with should be the one who will raise your child with you. Many relationships change radically after the birth of a child. Of course, this is not the rule because there are those that have lived together for over 40 years and still love each other. And, of course, they’re happy with their decision to have kids.
If it turns out that children are meant for you, the next step should be to find out how many kids you will have.
If you have already answered all the questions above and are ready to decide if you want a kid or not, then click this “Start” button. Answer the questions as honestly as you can. Be honest. Only thanks to such answers will we be able to tell you if you are ready to have a kid or not. Good luck!
