Every relationship comes with history. The real question is: how much of that history is still shaping the present? Emotional baggage doesn’t automatically mean red flags — sometimes it simply reflects past experiences that haven’t been fully processed yet.
This quiz explores how your partner reacts to conflict, trust, affection, jealousy, and future planning. Do they communicate openly, or do they shut down? Are their emotional reactions balanced, or do small situations trigger big responses? The patterns often reveal more than isolated moments.
Carrying emotional baggage doesn’t make someone “bad.” It just means they may still be healing. Some partners have resolved their past and grown from it. Others may still carry unresolved hurt, attachment wounds, or fear of abandonment that subtly influence the relationship dynamic.
Answer honestly based on consistent behavior, not just occasional bad days. The goal isn’t to judge your partner — it’s to understand the emotional weight within the relationship.
By the end, you’ll get a clearer sense of whether your partner is emotionally secure, slightly guarded, or still navigating significant unresolved experiences.
Ready to find out what you’re really dealing with?
